We could hardly wait to get our hands on the new issue of Frontiers because we heard there was Kathy Griffin scoop in it. Sure enough, there was one of Kathy’s “main gays” on the cover. Remember her two “best gays” that were prominently featured in the first season of her show “My Life on the D-List?” Before the series even aired they had been banished from her life. After ten years of friendship. Handsome Tony Tripoli revealed WHY. He insists it had NOTHING to do with the fact that they were not paid to be on the show. He says the friendship didn’t end over one specific argument – it was what he calls “A blossoming lack of kindness and gratitude” on her part. (We suspect it COULD have something to do with the way she treated her husband Matt.) Tony says “I want to live in a world with a little more kindness.” Tony has a role on new series Fashion House and he might be amused to hear that Kathy was seen last weekend flying ECONOMY on Southwest to Oakland where she took the SHUTTLE (no limo) to her show in Napa.